When I was young my dad, Merrill Sr, used to say things that my siblings and I would either laugh at, ignore, or just shake our heads because we thought he was a little crazy. As we got older, we started to pay more attention to his seemingly meaningless phrases and began to realize he was attempting to impart a little wisdom on us without a long and drawn out sermon. My dad was the master of idioms. Seldom did he have a conversation where he would not resort to one of his favorite nuggets of wisdom. Maybe some of them bring back memories from your childhood too. Here are some of his favorites.
Don’t worry about the mule going blind, just load the wagon!
Do something even if it’s wrong!
Stop spinning your wheels!
Busier than a one-armed paper hanger!
It’s hotter than the hinges of hades.
Don’t let the cat out of the bag.
Better to let a sleeping dog lie
Dumber than a box of rocks
Happier than a pig in poop
Even a blind squirrel finds a nut once in a while
Make hay while the suns a shining
It’s not rocket science
A good run is better than a poor stand
The straw that broke the camel’s back
Grass is always greener on the other side
Don’t count your chickens before the eggs have hatched
We’ll cross that bridge when you come to it
Burning the candle at both ends
I could go on and on, and I’m sure you can think of many more used in your house. So, what’s so special about all these old sayings? Just like the tune of a old song can get stuck in your head, so too can these words of wisdom. Passing wisdom down from one generation to the next happens through a variety of ways- stories, songs, poems, movies, etc as well as old sayings and idioms.
As this holiday season approaches, you may find yourself surrounded by friends and family. Take time to ask questions and tune in to stories of those you love and care about. Listen closely to the wisdom they impart. Take time to think about how you have learned so many of the values that guide you through your life. Maybe even write some of them down. Give credit to the people who passed those values to you, and think about how you want to pass them along.
My children are always talking about grandpa’s old sayings. Several years ago, my son and nephew were so inspired by their grandpa’s one liners that they gave him a recording device to capture his funny and interesting sayings. They asked their grandpa to set the device by his recliner and record his thoughts and one liners. My dad thought it was kind of fun idea and took them up on their idea. Over the course of the several months, my dad would grab the recorder and share some of his favorites for his grandkids.
Today, my dad is 89 and struggles to recall much of anything, but thanks to my son and nephew, we have an entire collection of grandpa’s sayings to pass to the next generation. It’s such a blessing to close our eyes and listen to grandpa’s voice as he imparts nuggets of wisdom and timeless teachings about the things that really matter. That’s a gift to be truly thankful for. Thanks, Dad! We love you!